Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Fisantekraal Holiday Club...a group leader's point of view!

At the recent holiday club we had a number of first time group leaders. The team turned out to be our dream team as they gave it a go. Some were youth from Fisantekraal and The Father's House and one adult woman from The Father's House. She shares some of her experience with us...

I had no idea it would be so much fun. The community hall echoed with shrieks of laughter, games and lots of kids. As a conservative, quiet fifty-something woman, I am used to playing it safe; yet here I was, wrapped in black plastic, face smothered in menthol shaving foam and on my knees in front of a hundred yelling kids. And it was fun. All of little Trevor’s marshmallows were bang on target. The winner would be the person with the most marshmallows on their face, but sadly none of mine seemed to stick. Lano had caught some in his open mouth (was that allowed?) and Elmien was having some success too. Being adventurous can be risky – my eyelids were stinging from the foam – but fortunately it didn’t get any worse. The Red team screamed their support: I could endure the discomfort! After half an hour (no, it was only five minutes) Hermione announced the winners: the red team! Because we’d “followed the instructions to the letter.” Thanks, Hermione!

My skin felt incredibly smooth after the facial. Somehow this stunt broke the ice for me - I made friends and learned how to break-dance on my stomach.


The Fisantekraal Holiday Club is all about having fun, and Barbara is very good at ensuring that not only the children have a great time, but the leaders do too! We met in the minor hall of the Father’s House Christian Fellowship for training that Friday before the club began; a handful of FHCF youth and some older volunteers. Once the taxi load of Fisantekraal teenagers poured through the double doors Barbara had us all in a circle playing “Jump in, jump out, introduce yourself!” That was probably the hardest thing I had to do: I was completely out of my comfort zone but gritting my teeth I introduced myself and a few of my favourite things. Chocolate and pizza, I think. Gosh, I felt I’d climbed Mt Kilimanjaro. What had started with preparing crafts with some women at church the week before had graduated into actually volunteering to be a leader at the week-long club. Lynette was very good. She said, come along, try it, see how you go…

My youngest child had bravely flown to Europe to be an au pair the previous week and it was my chance to do something I’ve wanted to do for years, but lacked the courage. And I’m so glad I did go to Fisantekraal. In fact, I enjoyed myself so much, I found myself asking Barbara if I could help at the after-school club on Wednesdays…